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Pray in tears for me the sinful before I go to my creator
Dear Brothers and sisters,
How are yon doing in Christ? As there is no secret before God, I want to share the dirt I have in my life with you hoping you will give me your noble spiritual advice.
When I was a high school student, I fell in love with a girl who deserted me after a year by, as I thought then, favouring another boy. To revenge that, I started a love affair with her sister who had no information the relationship I had with the other one.
Meanwhile, the second sister i.e, the one with whom I started love for revenge, had lived away from me for five years due to academic and occupational reasons. Now, both sisters who still know nothing about my afair with each of them, are asking me to resume the relationship. While praying to see me cleansed in the eyes of God, what do you advise me?
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Dear Brother in Christ,
Thank you for writing to us seeking advice out of your heartfelt regret. This problem about which you have written is encountered by many who have attained adulthood. It is fair of you to regret that ungodly act which you did out of the expected short-sighted ness of your age.
You are the son of God created in His image and you can still win the world through your faith.Jn.1:12. When the first girl left you, you could have waited for God's will by refering the case to Him through your prayer. In fact, you should have realised that the girl deserved the right to quit the relationship. After all, there was no spiritually binding promise between you two. You shouldn't have resorted to revenge since it is by no means godly. Did you have and proof to conclude that she deserted you falling in love with another? Man be because you were so emotional, you took anybody she walked with – a school mate, a neighbour or a relative-as the contender of your love.
You should have treated the problem phlegmatically leaving revenge to God even if you were certain of any evil intent on her side. Deut.32:35. Every human being lives with the struggle between the wills of his flesh and his soul. St. paul makes this conflict evident when he says, ² O wretched man that I am. Who will deliver me from this body of death? I thank God through Jesus Christ our Lord. So then, with the mind I myself serve the Law of God, but with the flesh the Law of sin. " Romans 7:24-25. You see, even St. paul calls himself a " wretched man" who serves the law of God and that of sin.
What you have to do now is to contact your soul father and repent for your misdeed. Plus, you should also reveal this to the two innocent sisters /who know nothing about your evil calculation/ ask for their apology and start your own new life. In so doing, you will spare them from the likely conflict they may get in to. The Lord who has accepted the repentance of St. David is trusted to do the same for you as well. 2 sam. 13:13. Be strong and let God be with you!! Amen!
May God Bless us, Amen.
